In the package department I'm average, not too big, not small, just right for your pleasure. I love to work out and am big into physical fitness. I am looking to Bottom. We do not have an "ideal person"..however we are sure that the ideal person is not married and has no issues Carlsbad, NM meeting or getting away but also understands that I have a "VELVET TONGUE!", more importantly, I love to use my lips tongue and mouth along with my body to provide my play partners pleasureSo to be very clear Ill NEVER seek out flybynight or casual encounters Theres no trust or enjoyment in that for me I am seeking intimate friendships that involve just as much hang out as anything else as Im known to host gettogethers at my private home with trusted friends Otherwise I prefer hosting play at hotelsNow although I am Dominant occasionally I enjoy switching to an equally intense submissive given the right situation and trusted play partners I have had and continue to enjoy safe intimate experiences in this lifestyle choice I am not into pain or anything involving bodily excretions We all have our preferences, but I will talk to everyone.